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2date: 2025-01-23
3location: Playa del Carmen, MX
4author: Anton
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6# Communication
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8I’m staying in Mexico in Playa del Carmen. There is a nice local food truck that sells tacos and [tortas](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Torta#Mexico)(Mexican sandwiches).
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10Every day I go there and order two tortas: one for myself and one for my girlfriend.
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12My order usually goes like this:
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14“One sandwich with meat with cheese and no onions and another one with meat and onions and no cheese”(una torta con arrachera y queso sin cebolla y otra torta con arrachera y cebolla sin queso) - try saying that aloud when you reading this.
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16At this moment cashier that accepts my order freezes - because I order two sandwiches that kind of opposite of each other. Then in 3 seconds he realizes what I order and repeats the order back to me. I pause too to process what he said, but then I approve the order and he passes it to the cook.
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18Everything so good so far.
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20But then every 3rd time when I received my order *I’ve got two sandwiches with onions*.
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22I repeated this procedure maybe 15 times at this point. And everyday there is a pause and everyday there is an anxiety not knowing if both sandwiches will have onions.
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24So what is the issue here? The issue is that information needs to travel from me to cashier and from cashier to the cook.
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26So there is more chances that information can be lost or misunderstood. The person who takes the order and understands it is not the same person who executes it.
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28Here is small visualization for you:
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30communication-diagram.png
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32Why am I telling this story? Because it’s a trivial example about trivial topic - sandwich. But you can see it’s happening in our daily life all the time - in relationship or at work.
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34[Telephone](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Telephone_game) game is a real world thing that happens all the time.
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36Think about work. Maybe you come up with some idea for a project. You describe it to 3 different people in one sentence and they will imagine 3 different things - and now you need to spend time bringing everyone on the same page - to reconcile what you have in your head with the things people have in theirs.
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38Or maybe you are an engineer and your manager asked you to work on a thing that he got from the support and support got it from the customer. How many levels did this information pass before it reach it? How accurate it is?
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40### Reflections:
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42- communication is hard.
43- alignment is hard.
44- in order to make communication more efficient remove intermediate steps if possible.
45- if you can, try to implement checks if information received is correct at every stage. try to catch mistakes as early as possible.
46- direct contact - try to make sure that people who collect information at the source are the ones who are working on things(if possible).